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			<title>A Glimpse into Gracious Discernment</title>
						<description><![CDATA[On Christmas Eve, Nicholas Cage's character in The Family Man, is caught in the trappings of a very successful, but personally thoughtless career in finance. From sleeping with attractive woman, having no family and of his own and little regard for others who have families, his upward mobility only masks his deeper descent farther away from his humanity. Just as the biblical Jonah continues "go do...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2025/03/31/a-glimpse-into-gracious-discernment</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2025 09:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block  sp-scheme-2" data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">On Christmas Eve, Nicholas Cage's character in <i>The Family Man,&nbsp;</i>is caught in the trappings of a very successful, but personally thoughtless career in finance. From senselessly sleeping with attractive woman, to incalculable greed, to a disdain for others who have families, his upward mobility only masks a deeper departure from his humanity. Just as the biblical Jonah continues "step down" closer to death with every step "away" from God, he too is ambushed by a semi-divine loving confrontation. This time it isn't a fish but some sort of guardian angel figure, rescuing him from a life of selfishness through a "glimpse." He will now experience life as it could have been, had he chosen his college sweetheart over his career.<br><br>As he wakes up in his new bed in the 'burbs, he essentially inhabits the same city, but in a very different story. Nevertheless his character hasn't yet changed. Instead of maintaining a picture of success through greed, family disdain, and sexual infidelity, he pursues what he had lost in the same way.<br><br>However in this story, he has something that he never had before: true friendship. In his old life, he never had anyone actually love him enough to ask him to consider how his actions have harmed himself and others. But in this story, his new best friend becomes aware of his desire to cheat on his new spouse. Instead of applauding this false sense of freedom, his friend graciously challenged him not to throw away the best thing in his life. Instead of shaming or shunning, he came with a desire to walk alongside. Without a tinge of anger, and only motivated by love, displayed through pleading "tears of the heart," his friend convinced him of his foolish selfishness. Eventually this becomes this life he actually desires, never having had such friends, family, and spouse. It's a beautiful picture of redemption.<br><br>Christians inhabit the same places, as others, and as we always did, but with a different and better story. We have different and better friends who can graciously encourage us to follow Jesus alongside one another. Yet even more, we have the Spirit dwelling inside of us, which not only confirms such godly counsel, it rewires our desires and realigns them with God's will.<br><br>We are guaranteed such a Spirit, and given such a family, but are we close enough with others to have such friends? Are we willing to graciously listen to graciously consistent counsel? Are we willing to give such graciously consistent counsel? When sadness is present in such counselors, as opposed to self-righteous anger or glee, there will always hope for real change and redirection.<br><br>I ended up cutting out this illustration from the sermon on I Corinthians 5 regarding the right king of loving judgment, which I called gracious consistent critical discernment. You can listen sermon called <a href="https://harborcommunitychurch.org/media/wdc2jj2/i-went-to-the-judgement-zone" rel="" target="_self"><u>"I went to the judgment zone" here.&nbsp;</u></a><br><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>Layover Tears</title>
						<description><![CDATA[As a family we don’t do layovers. Of course as in an individual, if I ever fly by myself, I don’t layovers either. It’s just that you can’t beat the convenience of the direct flight. You leave one place and then you arrive at your destination.I would like to think that my family could do a non-direct flight, if we really had to do so. But I do know at one point in our lives, no amount of money cou...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2024/05/02/layover-tears</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2024 19:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block " data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">As a family we don’t do layovers. Of course as in an individual, if I ever fly by myself, I don’t layovers either. It’s just that you can’t beat the convenience of the direct flight. You leave one place and then you arrive at your destination.<br><br>I would like to think that my family could do a non-direct flight, if we really had to do so. But I do know at one point in our lives, no amount of money could have lead me to entertain the idea. &nbsp;My brother and sister-in-law flew into Bradenton a weeks ago to visit. They have 3 kids under the age of 10 and do a great job parenting those kids.<br><br>But no amount of parenting skill in preparing a preschooler for a layover can temper her &nbsp;sacred anticipation.. Despite constant affirmations that there was sill one more flight, it just didn't connect. After all, they were so much closer now. But Ft Lauderdale, while still within the state of Florida, and much closer to Bradenton than Virginia, is not nor will ever be confused with Bradenton.<br><br>Except maybe just this once. We'e come so far, and were' still not there yet?<br><br>Full of rich expectation from a much desired family reunion that wasn't to be, tears saturated her disappointment. Can you blame her? For all she knew, they'd come all the way to Wallyworld only to find it closed for the summer.<br><br>But the Nance-Henderson family trip was not in any shape or fashion like a Griswold adventure. This was an entirely different story. They just needed to take one more flight. They just simply weren't there yet. But they soon would be.<br><br>The presence of tears didn’t indicate an absence of faith, but actually very much the opposite. We’re simply not where we want to be. And who is?<br><br>Our jobs, families, churches, kids, parents, lives are not currently where we want them to be. We’re not there yet. It's ok to cry and be disappointed. It's ok to question. I don't know how often I hear, "I can't question God..." Really? What bible are you reading?<br><br>The OT is full of questions like "How long, have your forgotten us, why, when?" Stop your sanctimonious pretension and just stop and cry. Stop and be disappointed. Stop and be frustrated for a hot minute. We're not there yet.<br><br>Jesus told us that even though His Kingdom was at hand, that there would days like this. And honestly even days much worse than this, with earthquakes, wars, and it was STILL not the end.<br><br>The Apostle Paul speaks of the layover experience as birth pains.<br><br>"For we know that the whole creation has been groaning together in the pains of childbirth until now. 23 And not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies."<br><br>We're way closer than when we started, and that's exactly what makes it harder. We're not in Virginia (metaphorically speaking) which is great. But sometimes being in Ft Lauderdale can be even harder. So close we can taste it. So close we can cry. Layover tears.<br><br><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>Riding shotgun in a &quot;Fast Car&quot;</title>
						<description><![CDATA[I’m not hip enough to watch any music award ceremonies. But I am regularly on twitter and saw post after post from people I think are hip (though that might not be saying very much) praising the duet of Tracy Chapman and county singer Luke Combs. As someone who loved the original song “Fast Car,” - jamming to it on guitar back when I had a lot of hair-I had to listen for myself. Wow was I blown aw...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2024/02/07/riding-shotgun-in-a-fast-car</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2024 06:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
			<guid>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2024/02/07/riding-shotgun-in-a-fast-car</guid>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block  sp-scheme-2" data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">I’m not hip enough to watch any music award ceremonies. But I am regularly on twitter and saw post after post from people I think are hip (though that might not be saying very much) praising the duet of Tracy Chapman and county singer Luke Combs. As someone who loved the original song “Fast Car,” - jamming to it on guitar back when I had a lot of hair-I had to listen for myself. Wow was I blown away; the hype was right! In fact you would be hard pressed to find many negative reviews of their performance. But it’s not just the song, it’s the story behind the song, that makes the performance so beautiful.<br>&nbsp;<br>I’m not sure if you can remember your first favorite song (for me I think it was Every Rose Has its Thorn by Poison), but for Luke it actually was Tracy Chapman’s “Fast car.” Because she owns the rights to “Fast Car,” she became the first black female song writer of a number 1 country hit. In order to do justice to the song, and to its writer, Combs didn’t change a single lyric, even when perhaps, he should have. He leaves this line unchanged: “working as a checkout girl.” Typically, most dudes would have done so.<br><br>Combs reference to himself as a check out girl affirmed his serious commitment to honor the original author. Ironically, had Luke tried to make the song “more of his own,” be more true to himself, more relevant, the less attractive it actually would have become.<br><br>Luke Combs takes a back seat, or you could say, “rides shotgun” shotgun in this duet, while Chapman drives the show. She opens, and he deferentially follows her lead. The whole duet is a beautiful picture of Jesus and His church. We’re tempted to take the gospel message handed down to us and make it our own instead of see Jesus as our ends. In attempting to give it a relevant twist, we making it less beautiful, distinct, relevant.<br><br>Colossians 1:28-29&nbsp;Him we proclaim, warning everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone mature in Christ.<br><br>The temptation is that we would turn this beautiful story of extravagant grace into a moralistic quest of self improvement, or hope that it leads to a better (successful, easier, American prosperous) life. The gospel is a beautiful song with a beautiful backstory. The more we believe it, the more we can humbly share the stage with others and deflect honor their way. The more we find ourselves needing to be front and center, unable or unwilling to celebrate beautiful contributions from those outside our tribe, the less we believe the message we proclaim.<br><br><a href="https://www.grammy.com/videos/tracy-chapman-luke-combs-fast-car-2024-grammys-performance-66th-annual-grammy-awards" rel="" target="_self"><b>You can see the Fast Car duet here.&nbsp;</b></a><b>&nbsp;</b></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>A Plethora of Angels?</title>
						<description><![CDATA[                           “Would you say they had a plethora of angels?” - Luke 2:8-14Shepherds as a whole were not the most respected folks around these parts. They couldn’t serve or give testimony in a court of law, and were known to “confuse” other sheep with theirs, and so add to their flock. There is no reason to think that these particular blokes were moving stolen property, nor that they w...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2023/12/20/a-plethora-of-angels</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 20 Dec 2023 13:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block " data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style=""><br>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<b>“Would you say they had a plethora of angels?” - Luke 2:8-14<br></b><br>Shepherds as a whole were not the most respected folks around these parts. They couldn’t serve or give testimony in a court of law, and were known to “confuse” other sheep with theirs, and so add to their flock. There is no reason to think that these particular blokes were moving stolen property, nor that they were sketchy. But as a whole, you’d probably have wanted your baby to grow up to be a cowboy over a shepherd. One trait was “true” about all shepherds, whether sketchy or honorable: they were unclean ceremonially unclean. Not only ceremonially, but likely took on some of the smell of the sheep. It just may have made dating and fellowship quite difficult!<br><br>1.) &nbsp;There are certain times in life when you feel surrounded, and there are certain times you are <i>actually</i> surrounded. What do you picture when you read that shepherds were surrounded by the glory of the Lord? &nbsp;What might that have looked felt like? Has anything like that ever happened before in the OT? (Read exodus 16:10)<br><br>2.) As with all angelic “cameo’s,” the first response is always fear. How is this encounter different &nbsp;than the other two we’ve seen thus far? How is this fear described? Did the fact that there was more than one shepherd, meaning, “they had each other,” do anything to their fears? What does that tell us about some of our solutions to our fears?<br><br>3.) We probably can’t imagine the shepherds’ relief at hearing the angelic comfort. &nbsp;We often refer to the gospel as an announcement of good news, not good advice. How does this passage of “good news” reinforce that point?<i> This is an announcement of something that has been done, not something for them to do! God has done it as evidenced through this child.<br></i><br>4.) Did Gabriel need a “back-up” band? What is the point of having the other angelic accompaniment? What do they add to the story? El Guapo from the movie Three Amigos would have described the angelic number as a “plethora” but the ESV translators used “multitude.” Do the right kinds of numbers make a difference when it comes to angels? How does “the more the merrier” make a difference now?<br><br>5.) Who are these heavenly hosts? Is having army angels announce this peace ironic or is it appropriate? <i>Peace comes not from shedding others blood, but Jesus shedding his own.These sheep are likely sacrificial sheep used for temple sacrifice. Soon these shepherds would have to tend a different flock of sheep as Jesus becomes the Lamb of God and final sacrifice to end all sacrifices!</i><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>Doesn't make any census</title>
						<description><![CDATA[Read Luke 2:1-7. Luke already claimed to be a fastidious historian, getting details about Jesus' life compiled so that people could have sufficient information on which to base their faith. However, not too terribly long after he wrote his gospel, people had some “details” questions regarding the census that brought Joseph and Mary back to Bethlehem. There was an infamous census when Quirinius was...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2023/12/18/doesn-t-make-any-census</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2023 07:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block  sp-scheme-3" data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">Read Luke 2:1-7. This is part 1 of Advent week 3 in our Harbor Devotional that accompanies our <a href="/sermons-audio" rel="" target="_self"><u><b>"Anthems</b></u>"</a> series in Luke.<br><br>Luke already claimed to be a fastidious historian, getting details about Jesus' life compiled so that people could have sufficient information on which to base their faith. However, not too terribly long after he wrote his gospel, people had some “details” questions regarding the census that brought Joseph and Mary back to Bethlehem. There was an infamous census when Quirinius was governor in Syria (Luke records this in Acts) of which doesn’t exactly line up, since this was in 6 AD (probably 10 years after Jesus was born) and Quirinius doesn’t seem to be &nbsp;governor at this time. While a number of explanations have been put forth to explain this seeming discrepancy, it is likely best to just say, “I don’t know.” I’d like a better explanation myself, but then again, there has to be a place for mystery in our faith. If we are willing to believe in angels, then probably these missing details aren’t that big of a stretch!<br><br>1.) Even though we have some questions regarding the details and dating regarding this census, why do you think it is important for Luke to include these details? What do historical details like this do for the reader? <i>These details locate the story in a specific setting and time. Myths don’t record details, historians recording real history do! We need to know this is history.<br></i><br>2.) Notice that God includes Pagan emperors as part of his story. Why might this be important for us to realize? What do you think Ceasar’s motivation was for this census? How does Luke encourage us with this story? <i>Despite Ceasar’s intentions, &nbsp;God is in control of all things and can use selfish actions for His glory!</i><br><br>3.) Joesph’s hometown was Bethlehem, even though he hadn’t lived there in some time. He returns back home by Imperial decree, but why God does allow this likely unpopular edict to happen. Read Micah 5:2.<br><br>4.) How convenient and comfortable would this journey have been for the very pregnant Mary? &nbsp;What does this tell you about the experiences of the main players in Jesus’ story? What about the rest of the birth story, biblical story, our stories? Do they suffer inconvenience and discomfort? <i>It is not easy being part of this story, but it is always better. Still we need to see how “inconveniencing” it is sometimes.</i><br><br>5.) There has been even more speculation regarding the surroundings of Jesus’ brith than with this census. What can we know for sure from this narrative?<i>&nbsp;Swaddling cloths, manger.</i>&nbsp; What kinds of things have been added to the story that are neutral? What has been added that could be unhelpful, or simply sentimental? <i>“Little Lord Jesus, no crying he makes.”<br></i><br>6.) Some early traditions put Jesus’ birth in a cave. Some have placed him in a barn. But some recent scholarship has claimed that the inn could be a mistranslation and might just refer to a different room in same house, where animals could have been kept. Regardless of exact setting, how does Jesus’ birth give us a picture of his ministry, mission, and life moving forward?<br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>Jesus the Tree Swing</title>
						<description><![CDATA[A few years ago, a fairly inebriated Indian lad decided to make the ill-fated decision of jumping into a zoo’s lion enclosure. Fortunately for him, some workers witnessed the worst decision of his life - I may be giving him too much credit but hopefully this at least cracked the top 3 -and tranquilized the lions before they could pounce. Unfortunately the short lived rescue celebration soon ended ...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2023/12/11/jesus-the-tree-swing</link>
			<pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2023 19:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
			<guid>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2023/12/11/jesus-the-tree-swing</guid>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block " data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">A few years ago, a fairly inebriated Indian lad decided to make the ill-fated decision of jumping into a zoo’s lion enclosure. Fortunately for him, some workers witnessed the worst decision of his life - I may be giving him too much credit but hopefully this at least cracked the top 3 -and tranquilized the lions before they could pounce. Unfortunately the short lived rescue celebration soon ended with incarceration. They do frown upon that kind of thing in most countries.<br><br>The Old Testament story of Daniel doesn’t depict a dude intentionally dangling his life in front of deadly lions, but his defiant faith certainly revealed a willingness to meet such beasts on their home turf. He knew anyone caught praying could get a back stage pass into the Big Cat Rescue. Faith put him in this precarious place, but prayer could just easily get him out or get him through.<br><br>Yet even the King seems less amazed by the quality of Daniel’s faith than by the power of Daniel’s God. You can have sincerity of faith in an object lacking ability, and your sincerity won’t accomplish squat.<br><br>The king declared to Daniel, “O Daniel, servant of the living God, has your God, whom you serve continually, been able to deliver you from the lions?”<br>Sometimes we think that if we have enough faith God will rescue; if we don’t, he won’t. Or if we didn’t get the answer to our prayers, something have been wrong with us. Or perhaps something may just be wrong with God. Not true. The writer of Hebrews closes out his “Hall of Faith” describing those with plenteous faith experiencing plenty of obstacles. Some of them experienced rescue FROM their situations while others experienced rescue THROUGH their situations. Either way, the ONE whom they had faith in, is presented to us as being ONE worth trusting completely. He enabled them to be faithful, why would anyone other than Him get a 2nd look?<br><br>How can our faith grow so that we can trust God no matter what? We don’t grow by comparing ourselves with others, but we can see our faith grow in the company of others.<br><br>One of our favorite vacation memories also happens to have been the “simplest:” a tree swing on a Georgia lake. But I first needed company in order to help me trust that swing. I didn’t know if it would hold me up, and I sure had questions regarding my ability to hold myself on. So I needed to see that others would be held up and would be able to hold on before I could trust the swing. When I witnessed others trust, and they were held up/held on, I became convinced that swing was worth trusting.<br><br>Now imagine if I had come to that tree swing and noticed multiple plaques comprising a similar testimony that went something like this “My name is &nbsp;______ , and I had all this stuff going on in my life, and this swing held me up, and held me on. What if these plaques came from a group of people from a various settings over multiple centuries? That’s what we have with Hebrews 11 “Hall of Faith.” What if we had the benefit of fellowship with the past as well with present saints? It’s easier to have faith within the company of people who already have faith, and have had faith long ago.<br><br>&nbsp;Even greater, Jesus is more than a swing that holds us up, but a swing with “hands” that hold us on. How do I know if I’ll be able to hold on though _______ situation? We remember that no one can pry us out of His hands, so I don’t need to fret about falling away. If you come to Jesus, and ask him to save you (hold you up and hold you on), even a little bit of faith in the right place is actually plenty of faith. It is far more effective than having a lot of faith in the wrong thing.<br><br>And when present company falls away, you are still left with someone who won’t. Look at this encouragement from the Apostle Paul while surrounded by metaphorical lions in the courtroom.<br><br>16 At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me. May it not be charged against them! 17 But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion's mouth. 18 The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen. - II Tm 4:16-18<br><br><br><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>Advent: A Long December and a December to Remember</title>
						<description><![CDATA[If you were to visit Bethlehem this year, this December, it would not look like Bethlehem last year on a couple different levels. The Patriarchs and heads of church got together and all agreed to cancel all  public festivities and the large-scale display of brightly lit and expensive decorations Bethlehem wouldn’t be as outwardly ostentatious and celebratory this year, in a sense of solidarity wit...]]></description>
			<link>https://harborcommunitychurch.org/blog/2023/12/05/advent-a-long-december-and-a-december-to-remember</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2023 08:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<section class="sp-section sp-scheme-0" data-index="1" data-scheme="0"><div class="sp-section-slide"  data-label="Main" ><div class="sp-section-content" ><div class="sp-grid sp-col sp-col-24"><div class="sp-block sp-text-block  sp-scheme-3" data-type="text" data-id="0" style=""><div class="sp-block-content"  style="">If you were to visit Bethlehem this year this December, it would would appear a bit less, shall we say, festive than last December. <a href="https://www.foxnews.com/world/christian-leaders-bethlehem-defend-canceling-christmas-celebrations-emphasize-spiritual-meaning" rel="" target="_self">The Patriarchs and heads of church got together and all agreed <b>to cancel all &nbsp;public festivities&nbsp;</b>and the large-scale display of brightly lit and expensive decorations</a>.<b><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/world/christian-leaders-bethlehem-defend-canceling-christmas-celebrations-emphasize-spiritual-meaning" rel="" target="_self">&nbsp;</a></b><b>&nbsp;</b>Bethlehem wouldn’t be as outwardly ostentatious and celebratory this year, in a sense of solidarity with what has been happening to people in their country. Further explanation....<br><br>"But these are not normal times. there has been an atmosphere of sadness and pain. Thousands of innocent civilians, including women and children, have died or suffered serious injuries, "Many more grieve over the loss of their homes, their loved ones, or the uncertain fate of those dear to them. Throughout the region, even more have lost their work and are suffering from serious economic challenges.<br><br>So even on the first day of December, one could probably already feel the lament of the Counting Crows song, “Its a long December for us, but will this year will be better than the last?” &nbsp;You can have opinions on whether taking down decorations and cancelling outdoor frivolity and merrymaking was the correct route to take. However there really is a historical practice that includes this thought pattern (some don't even put up decorations until Christmas Day!). Many churches have a tradition called Advent: a period of waiting occurring during the 4 weeks leading up to Christmas which gives a sacred (set apart and protected) time for personal and communally lamentation. However it is a &nbsp;lamentation not devoid of all &nbsp;illumination (candlelight). It is a time to remember those caught in the crossfire in Bethlehem, but also in Bradenton. A time to consider those caught in the crossfire of cancer, divorce, doubts, rumors, opposition from family, bleeding finances, dying friends or dying dreams. We need space to be honest and say, “Lord we’re ready, so what’s taking so long?” We don’t see the way forward and we don’t have “reason to believe that this year will be better than the last” because this year wasn’t. We need space space and a place where we can look at the person next to us and say, “I’m hurting with you and for you, and I’m tired.”<br><br>A long December gives us an opportunity to long for Jesus to return. The church already has a version of a “Long December,” it’s called &nbsp;“O Come, O Come Emmanuel.” There are actually 7 verses. I think we need all of them. Or at least to actually mean <i>some</i> of the lyrics we sing.<br><br>&nbsp;Advent combines “A Long December” with another slogan that I’m going to hijack: "A December to Remember." Not in any sort of consumeristic way in the sense of buying a luxury automobile without first speaking to your spouse. A December to Remember that the world will not always be like it is. The very reason we know what it could be, and will is b/c of what Jesus has already done and begun to do.<br><br><i>For outlandish creatures like us, on our way to a heart, a brain, and courage, Bethlehem is not the end of our journey but only the beginning – not home but the place through which we must pass if ever we are to reach home at last. - Frederich Buechner<br></i><br>As I was listening to the children sing at their Christian school concert, I already anticipated a long and busy December. But by the end of the performance, I had chosen, at least for a few minutes, which story would I submit to, not simply subscribe to, like or follow. Would I long, and at the same time celebrate what had already been done and what will be? Could it be both "A long December" and "A December to Remember" at the same time? &nbsp;I leave you with this poem from Madeline L’Engle.<br><br>He did not wait till the world was ready,<br>till men and nations were at peace<br>He came when the Heavens were unsteady<br>and prisoners cried out for release.<br>He did not wait for the perfect time.<br>He came when the need was deep and great.<br>In joy he came to a tarnished world of sin and doubt.<br>To a world like ours, of anguished shame<br>He came, and his Light would not go out.<br>He came to a world which did not mesh,<br>to heal its tangles, shield its scorn.<br>In the mystery of the Word made Flesh<br>the Maker of the stars was born.<br>We cannot wait till the world is sane<br>to raise our songs with joyful voice,<br>for to share our grief, to touch our pain,<br>He came with Love: Rejoice! Rejoice!<br><br><br><br></div></div></div></div></div></section>]]></content:encoded>
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